I return from hibernation!

Wow! I can't believe it's been over a year and a half since I last wrote here. I didn't think it had been that long.

Where to start? I'm single. I got another cat. No the two aren't related. 😂 The youngest girl is named Celeste. She chose me and is the most loving cat I've ever known. Not that my older cats aren't loving, but I've never met a cat like her where she is so attached to me.

The middle one she's sleeping on top of me. She's a sweetheart.

So, to catch everyone up, Lisa and I are no longer friends. She basically stole Scott from me and complained about her not getting enough attention.

She left her husband for Scott, claiming it was mostly me. They moved out in March of last year.

Friendships were tried to be rekindled from Sept to up until a few days ago. Not even her son, monster man, is enough for me to try again or put up with the bs.

I'm just done with them.

Oh! Some good news! In October of 2018, Chris called me! We talked for hours. And continue to talk for hours at times. Our friendship is really good. He's even coming out to visit some time. Just as a friend.

After all of the pain and bad relationships, I'm okay with being single for the next ten years. Maybe then I'll consider dating.

I dated all of my 20's and teen years. I'm 30 now and I'm excited for the years ahead of me. Finding my own place in the world. My own happiness. Not being tied down to people and obligations.

My twin got engaged last October!! She lives in our home state. I went out to visit her. They live together with his kids. There was a BBQ planned so she didn't question my staying a few days.

Even when everyone was waiting and decorations were out and their favorite movie was playing, she didn't get what was going on. It was so sweet. I told her maybe she should walk forward. Then she understood!

She said yes yes yes before he even finished asking. Then proceeded to say fuck you over and over bc it was public. And he told her for years that he wouldn't get married again. Except her fiancé and I were planning for months. He was planning longer!!

My other friend from home state: her, twin and I are the three musketeers. She's in the process of buying a house. Waiting on legal to look it over.

I'm so excited to help my friends celebrate their big milestones of life. Have time for them to celebrate with them.

I've honestly never been this happy in my life. It's great and scary and surreal.

I have a new journey to share and a lot more to update y'all on! I'm looking forward to writing again and reading other bloggers.

P.S. There will be kink stuff on the blog again. I'll explain next time! 😉