I wake up around 4:30 this morning because one of my cats is mewing at me. My girls missed me while I was off galavanting. But I see my phone is flashing so I check it. An email, meh. Open it up and it's from an ex...
This is now the second ex in two weeks that has contacted me. The latest one was a brief 3 week whirlwind and I even hesitate to call him an ex. We only met up for coffee, once. There were other online and phone interactions...but eh?
That was three and a half years ago.
I swear I'm not that interesting.
Okay, so I'm submissive. Great, awesome, fantastic. There were vast incompatibility issues going on, in both vanilla and kink. The 3 week guy and I just couldn't even make it work to begin with. At least the other guy had some type of foundation built. But I gave up who I was in order to make him happy, and when I couldn't do it anymore, he tossed me aside.
Literally mind boggling.
Either I'm more interesting and special than I give myself credit for, or I attract crazies who border on stalkers. Hell, both may be true.
I just don't get it. Move on. Find someone who actually wants to give them the time of day, because I obviously don't.