Monday, July 1, 2013

The night with Sir

The night with Sir...

We had a lot of fun!! The weather did not cooperate for plans so we just had to stay inside. I know, it was such a shame!

Of course we had a fair amount of sex and other fun. There was a mirror hanging on the wall across from the bed. It seemed like such an odd place to put one, ya know? Until Sir had me on hands and knees on the bed facing it as He took me from behind. Then I completely understood!! :-D

We had a lovely time at dinner. The restaurant we went to was not what either of us expected. It had a higher end feel with a relaxed dinner service. By that I mean the restaurant wasn't trying to get us in and out as quickly as possible. Instead there was appropriate time was given between courses, friendly staff without being overbearing. The food was fantastic!

It gave Sir and I a chance to catch up. It was nice chatting about what's going on in our lives, as well as discussions over current political happenings. We do have some differences but we don't argue about them. I love that we're able to share opposing view points with an open mind.

Now it wasn't all roses. Unfortunately, I had a severe panic attack. Sir was fantastic about it. I couldn't have asked for better support. I'm used to people not knowing what to do or just walking away. Even though Sir was put in a difficult position, He handled it really well. I am so thankful that He's never rejected me.

He told me He'd not let anyone hurt me. That He would do His best not to cause me pain. After things had calmed down a bit, He asked, "Who's my special girl?"  That would be me. *blushes and smiles*  He's really amazing.

Other than that one small hiccup, it was a really great time. I always love spending time with Him. We were all snuggled up in bed. We started watching Burn Notice as we cuddled, so of course I now have another show to watch. Silly man, getting me into addictive TV shows.

I should be seeing Him on the 9th. I'd like to see Him before that but with the holiday coming up, there may not be time. It's unfortunate that we both often have busy schedules. Either way, we'll figure something out soon because I can never get enough of Him. :)


  1. Eeeeeek..... I hate mirrors.

    Glad you had a good time though :)

    1. Oh I'm not a huge fan of them myself...I tend to avoid them like the plague.

      I do however like humiliation. Mmmm! Sir was nearly purring as we collapsed onto the bed. He quite enjoyed Himself as well with that. :)

  2. I'm so glad you were able to be with him (and not just the sex either.) Excited for you for the 9th - if not before!

    1. I'm always happy to spend time with Sir. :)

      I'm kind of uncertain about the 9th. I've not really been happy with some people lately. If I can see Sir, awesome. Just hoping it goes well in regards to that.

  3. How wonderful, I am also glad you had such a nice time.

    1. Me too! It was so great to get away, just Him and I. :)

  4. YAY!!! You know things are good when everything you do ... including political difference, sex & mirrors, AND panic attacks, are shared/dealt with, with comfortable "togetherness" ... hmmm did that make sense or I have od's on Canada Day (no not drinking just busy busy busy)???

    Oh well you KNOW I is happy for you! ;)


    1. It makes total sense. It is a testament to how amazing He is that He puts up with all my crazy!! LOL

      We're both really fluid in how we stand on certain issues. It all depends on whether the argument can persuade us or not. It's why monogamy with Sir isn't a horrifying thought for me, even though I'm so fluidly poly. Because the overall benefits of monogamy with Sir could definitely outweigh trying to make poly work, if it would keep the core of us stronger.

      It's about picking our battles, I guess.

      We are really comfortable together...except for the first ten, fifteen minutes whenever we're together and I feel like a teenage girl on her first date. Every, god damn time!! :-P

      The therapist says it's a good thing...being in love and all that. Yeah, yeah I know. I'm so in love that I can't help but get weak in the knees--literally.

      Oh yeah, sucking His cock while I was plugged? Totally made it difficult to stand once that was over. My legs didn't want to work, lol!!

      But yes, comfortable "togetherness" is very much accurate!!!