He thinks it's CUTE!!!
I was giving Him a "I'm not amused look" on Monday. I don't recall the specifics. He was likely being ridiculous. Our guy friend sitting next to Him knew to tread lightly.
But no! He thinks I'm just damn adorable when I'm trying to be angry, stern, mad, frustrated, etc.
It's so infuriating! And not for the reasons you're thinking. He's not poking fun at me and He's definitely not belittling my anger.
He legitimately thinks I look adorable and cute. He wants to pinch my cheeks and tell me just how cute I am.
Which makes me smile...
...grin like a fool...
...sigh in wistful contentment.
He takes all the fun out of being angry! Because then whatever He was doing no longer matters. Suddenly I see Him as all sweet and adorable again.
This is actually a great thing. I'm so well aware of that. Anger, resentment, frustration, etc are terrible things. Those eat away at happiness and peace in one's life. That He can defuse those moments is awesome!
He does have a very sweet, apologetic smile that more than makes up for Him taking the wind out of my sails. It's one of those "I'm sorry, I want to bundle you up in cuddles" smiles.
It's just in that moment, when I'm giving Him a look, it's just damn irritating that He can so easily make it disappear. I don't like being mad at Him either, which that likely helps. And it's never anything major so it's not like we have issues.
Like I said, I can't even remember what He was doing. I think part of Him does like getting under my skin. Sadist! Then being able to just turn off the reaction like a damn switch. That's the Dom in Him. Playing me like a well tuned instrument.
Damn Him for making me enjoy it too! :-P Because smiling contently after being angry is much better than just smiling and being content on its own. I'm somehow more pliant and controllable. If I didn't know better (and I do), I'd swear He was doing all of this on purpose.
Anyone else get these moments where the other person can quickly and easily defuse your anger?? It'd be good to know it's not just me (and us lol).
Also to those in the US, hope y'all have a Happy Thanksgiving with lots of delicious food and great memories with friends and family!!!
aww that's perfect. the easiest way to get over a potentially tense moment is when everything is giggled away.
ReplyDeleteyes, BIKSS has the ability to NOT turn everything i'm upset about into a contest of wills. sometimes he just looks at me with a smirky face or he'll lean forward and "fake" threaten with a "are you done? huh? what about now? are you finished? done? huh?" and i cant help but laugh and let him kiss me.
altho that doesn't mean i don't still make sure we talk about the issue seriously later on when i'm calmer (and not high pitched) and get to the root of the problem or find a workable solution.
i think this is why we ddon't fight much. he's just too good at making me stop wanting to be mad/upset/pissed off.
that's something I'm thankful for - and i bet you are too.
Oh yes, very thankful for that!
DeleteI'm so thankful that He came into my life and has made it unbelievably better. ^_^