Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Where The Cards Have Fallen

I pulled R aside on Sunday. We ended up seeing Them. There are really too many events in this area and it's only going to get worse as the holidays get closer.

I spoke to her privately. Ha, He knew exactly what I was doing as He watched us walk off. I brought her up to speed. I had to tell someone after all, since He won't let me talk about it anywhere else.

He didn't mind. I think He assumed I'd be telling Her. Because They are so aware of my life, it's not even funny.

Anyway, He offhandedly remarked that He'd likely be getting a talk from Them at some point. You know, make sure He knows what He's doing. Not to hurt me. That kind of stuff. All the standard "don't hurt someone I care about" threats. Heh...

Well, I mentioned His comment to K. Who then replied:
"Why would I do that?" ;)
Bc you care a lot about me and are super protective ^_^
"I expect you to be treated correctly, if not...well then there may be corrective steps taken." 
R's comments were more telling and amusing:
 "[K] is very protective. Your his kitten and he won't let anyone hurt you in the bad way. We know [He] is a good guy, but an extra warning never hurts."
I sent a message back basically saying it was nice that the people in my life can share. That's been a major issue in my life for...ummm well always been an issue in the past. People *cough read Doms cough* don't share well. But she continued and this is where it gets interesting:
"I think its because we know there is enough of you to go around and we know that you can have multiple partners. We know that your time with [Him] doesnt make you care for us less and I'm sure [He] sees that too. Also, we see how [He] can make you happy in ways we cant...We all just click, its why we gravitated to each other at the first party."
This is why I like Them so much!! It's why I love and care about Them. It's also why I don't really have a need to talk about Them much on this blog. Because we're absolutely good.

They're good with His role in my life, whatever it may end up being. And He's never had a single issue with me playing with Them.

He would say it's because He doesn't have a claim on me. Truth is He has as much, if not more, of a claim on me than They do. They're just willing to call me Theirs, while He's not ready for that. That's fine.

That's why I have a blog about Him. Because He and I are still figuring things out. Now y'all have a better perspective of the four of us. He's keeping Himself more distant, for sure. If He wants a closer spot, it'll be there waiting for Him. Not just for my life, but some part of Their lives as well.


  1. It sounds like you have a blog about YOU and They and Him are main characters.

    I enjoyed this post.

    1. Yes, your wording is better. That's the intention I had for it. Sometimes things don't come out or across like they should, lol.

      I'm glad you enjoyed this! :)