Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Vulnerable and Happy

In a week's time, Sir and I will have known each other for 6 months. We agree that it's too long and short of a time frame. So much has happened, almost too much. Yet, it feels like it's just a drop in the water. There's still much yet to happen and discover.

Tentatively, we want to do something together next Tuesday. Just us, celebrating 6 months of incredible friendship and bonding. And a toast to many more months and years ahead of us. We'll have to plan something before then.

July 15th is never going to look the same again. :)

We've changed. Grown. Explored.

I see Him tonight, even if I do have to share Him. But tomorrow, we're getting dinner first and then going to see Les Miserables. I've heard great reviews of the movie, even if it is 2 1/2 hours long. Maybe grab a coffee or a drink after the movie to discuss it. It'll depend on how we're feeling and how late it is. Hmm, it won't be quite 10pm....it's sad that I consider that "late."

*smiles softly*  He's better than I ever expected...more than I could have hoped for.

No games or secret motives...simply Us.

He reminds me of one of my uncles, which is the greatest compliment I could ever give Him. The same fire to change the world and be someone important runs in His veins. That same fierce protectiveness is there as well. Sir even shares the same levels of gentleness and care.

Even though I doubt it'll happen, I would love for the two of them to meet. The energy of two such incredible men in one room would be breath-taking to watch. I also wouldn't mind my uncle's advice in regards to Sir as he's the one man I have always trusted.

I know it makes Him a little uncomfortable that I can discuss Him so often and freely. Partially because of the public nature of the blog...but I think mainly, it touches Him in a place that He wasn't ready to expose again. He may have more issues with being vulnerable than I do...poor man.

But I'll say this: It's good for Him.

He's happier. I know because He smiles more. Genuine smiles that shine from deep within.

Yeah, I'm looking forward to what the next 6 months will bring...


  1. Congratulations! What a wonderful milestone and I'm sure there will be many more! You are both very lucky to have each other and to be growing together.

    love, squirrel

    1. Thanks squirrel!!

      We are very lucky. :) That's something I treasure each and every day.

  2. congratulations on making it to half a year... and making it through all the moments that those 6 months put in front of you.

    i wish you many many more happy moments!

    1. Thank you Fondles!!

      Yeah, there's been a lot of highs and lows over the last 6 months. We've managed our way through them all though. :)

      Tonight should definitely add to those happy moments!!

  3. Happy half-year Anniversary! Smiling more is a good thing :) So is being open and vulnerable to each other. Brightest blessings and grandest wishes for much joy on your road forward.


    1. Thanks very much June! Smiling is excellent, especially when it looks so damn good on Him! ^_^